Do you read self-help book after self-book trying to understand yourself? You don't always have to change. Change isn't bad and sometimes helpful but, what if you tried accepting yourself? Instead of reading generic self-help book after self-help book, maybe you should learn about yourself in a personalized way. If you want specific and reliable knowledge about yourself, I suggest you consider astrology. Learn it yourself or get a reading.
One of my favorite things about astrology is how helpful it can be. There are many examples I can give about how it helped me. One thing that astrology has personally helped me with is acceptance. I am accepting myself as is. I used to think something was wrong with me because I'm slow until I grasp something. I'm a Taurus. I'm a fast talker, eater, and walker. But when it comes to writing, learning new things, and reading I'm slow. Then I started reading more about Taurus and how it is the most earthy sign. I fell in love with the earth and the slowness. What's wrong with being slow and steady? What's wrong with being practical? What's wrong with just sitting and being?
Self-help books can be helpful. Write it Down, Make it Happen by Henriette Anne Klauser changed my life over a decade ago. I still use the skills I learn in that book today.